Saqi, on the other hand thought that in this trip, he would explain Sadia, that the way she thinks things are, may be, would not be productive in the long run and that she should also start to see Saqi as a good friend. There were several reasons for that and Saqi also never found it appropriate to discuss such important stuffs over the phone. The way she used to talk with him, this was all most impossible to make her explain and comprehend. He thought and was sure that when they both meet, it would be easy to make her understand things and he would manage everything and wouldn’t let her feel bad in any way. Don’t know, he just didn’t want to hurt her in any way and found that time to be most appropriate to tell her, when they both would be together. He knew this would be difficult, but somehow he had a hope that he would set everything right around her by properly and politely making her understand everything and he was sure that Sadia, in the end would understand everything and respect it. Saqi’s intensions were good and pure and all he could think was to speak the truth in front of her. All he prayed to God was to make it easy for Sadia and to just set everything right around her. Saqi too somewhere was scared as he didn’t want to lose Sadia as a good friend and couldn’t think what would be there relationship status after he tells everything to Sadia. But truth is truth and impossible often the untried; so keeping faith in God, he really looked forward to meet her till the most unexpected day came.
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I don't believe Sadia is in love with Saqi. Its just infatuation. These kind of feelings do come up when one is all alone having none to share his/her feeling with. How can Sadia love someone so much without having seen him even once. This is really foolish act of her. One needs to know someone very nicely to take these important decisions of life. I strongly feel that she needs a true and understanding friend. She wants this friend of her to be always there with her. She feels insecure that he might go away (even as a friend) and so wants to secure him for life. Maybe this is the reason what makes her feel that she really loves him. Maybe my ideologies are a bit different and many might not agree with, but I feel that what Saqi is doing is actually right. Saqi considers her as a very good friend and so he is concerned about her. He is right in his part when he says that he would clear everything in a much better way when he meets her. Sadia is blinded at this point wanting nothing else but Saqi. She cant think of taking him as 'just a friend',which is not right practically. We all should be happy with the things that we have in life and not ruin our lives simply thinking and doing what is neither possible nor expected.
I understand Saqi attitude though I don't agree with it. Letting someone believe their own "lie" for such a long period of time does not help... it only delays and postpones suffering. A friend is someone who tells you the truth however much it hurts you... and that truth is not postponed in time just because it is not appropriate to talk about it.
I think Saqi should have been much more straight forward from the beginning in what he wanted out of the relationship in that way he would have made sure that in both minds it was clear that this is just a Friendship.
If Sadia had then chosen to love him, no one could have stopped this feeling within her but it would have just been a "battle" she would have to win between herself.
y was saqi being so selfish....it seems he is as usual man who hs gt no right to play.bt at the same time ths society doesn appreciate wat life holds in termz of luv..so saqi ws kind of a comon person...
saqi should clearify that he doesnt love sadia as early as possible, keeping her in this state for a long time, will shatter her completely which will be a sin.
....well...nothin shud surprise us in this world..coz' everythin is possible here.....its not foolishness of sadia, or at all surprising, tht she loves him without seein him even once....coz face only hs trivial influence on how lovers feel for each other....yeah they say, love's blind..but it can see wth others normally dnt see.... ...n if her love is infatuation...then why not change the title to "....frenship v/s infuation..."..
neways...i need to take a deep sigh before writin aythin now...its obviously takin the tragic turn .....so i think sadia needs to control over her inflexible endeavour to get her love....
...nobody, as far as possible. nooo body wd want to compromise in love..but if this is not wht destiny wants..then saida needs to get real from now onwards, be strong enough to permeate every possible torment thru her skin n prevent everyone from pernicious attacks...
well sadia, before u see the spilled milk, u shud lower the heat...yeah this will be hard on u...but u will be learnin a lot from this n will get stronger to survive any hardships.. u got to understand hes helpless too..
n yes..saqi , in a way, wht u r doin is right..but to every ones expectations..hope u wnt be waitin for the right time anymore..coz u never know, it might be long gone...so make the move sooner..good luck...n to be honest...yes this might be the right decision too.....wish i cud change everythin....
mmmmmmm theres a bigger point tht needs serious attention...it seems like saida is gettin tooo much of pampering while saqi is far more innocent too...sadia needs the shoulder to cry on n she shud be ready for tht..but nobodys around her....so maybe saqi hs the responsibilty to think it over n over again before he can make the move...sadia sounds quite immature..she realy doest understand wht is on the other side of the story...i guess... this is puttin saqi under pressure as to wht if...she does sth wrong after she comes to face the truth...so from my other perspective, i think..saqi needs to be in front of her first...hope i m not wrong here...coz yeah... saqi sounds quite understandin n thoughtful...everybody..think it over now...;)
I can agree on that it looks a little like "poor little Sadia"... and alot of pressure on Saqi. It is much easier to be an outsider and to see what is a wrong action and what effects it is having on the other party... I don't question that Saqi is doing he upmost to deal with this in the best way possible and in the best of his intentions and even because he is a person with a enourmous heart and really worries about people he cares for.
My point continues to be that it is not healthy and correct to keep up a "dream" which we know as for sure we ourselves do not want. And this is why I continue to ask either Saqi is not exactly sure of what he actually wants or than I feel he should have made a point of however a good friend he is to Sadia, made things very clear from the point one...
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